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Steady Days Together
Example data Set up → Start fresh, before you record anything real.
How did they sleep?
Last bowel movement?
How are you holding up?
Out, slowly
They will take their cue from you.
Ask about the bathroom.
Quietly, from the front, at eye level. Don’t announce it — just ask.
6 min
Settled after “Put on Glenn Miller.”
What did you actually say? It will replace my wording on that card.
Call 911
- Someone has been hurt.
- You cannot keep them or yourself safe.
- They are unresponsive, or breathing strangely.
- Their face has drooped on one side, an arm has gone weak, or their speech has changed suddenly. Note the time and say “stroke” on the call.
If this is frightening you
Being hit, grabbed or threatened by someone you are caring for is common and almost never reported. It is a clinical fact about the illness, not a failing of yours, and saying it out loud changes what gets prescribed.
- Tell their doctor plainly — how often, and what happened.
- Ask about respite. You are allowed to need it.
- Alzheimer’s Association, day or night: 800-272-3900
Who to call
Call the doctor today
Sudden agitation that doesn’t fit their baseline is more often an infection, pain, or constipation than a change in the dementia. It is worth ruling out before anything is prescribed.
Something has changed
A sudden change is more often an infection, pain, or constipation than the dementia itself. Before trying anything new, tick anything that is true this week:
For whoever stands in
One page for a relative or a respite carer, from what you have entered and what the record has learned. Print it, or copy it into a message.
Look for fifteen minutes, then call
- Check the house, the garden, the car, and anywhere they have gone before.
- Not found within fifteen minutes: call your local emergency number, and say they have dementia.
- Call straight away if the weather is bad, they are frail, or they could be in danger.
Show this to whoever is searching
No photo saved yet. Add a clear one in Set up → About them, for next time.
Who to call
For the appointment
Example data — not a record of a real person Clear it in Set up before showing this page to anyone.
Behaviour record
Who they are
What has changed since then
Once episodes are logged this page fills in on its own: when they happen and whether that is changing, what was going on at the time, what settled them and what did not, and anything worth raising at the appointment.
Whether it is getting worse
When they happen
What was happening at the time
What has settled it
Tried without effect
Sleep and bowels
Medicines
What the carer has learned
Written down by the carer between episodes. Not measured by the app, and not ranked by it — the section above is what the record supports.
How the carer is doing
Episode reviews, in the carer’s words
Worth asking about
Recorded at home by a family carer using a self-help app, not by a clinician. These are the episodes the carer had a free hand to log, so read the counts as a floor rather than a complete record. Not a medical device and not a diagnosis.
The record
What this keeps
This is health information about someone who may not be able to read this page themselves. It is worth knowing exactly where it goes.
What it records
- Who they are: what you call them, their pronoun, the year they were born, where they grew up, what they did for a living, and the people who matter to them.
- What helps and what makes it worse, in your words — including their music and what to put in their hands.
- The medicines they take, and the two numbers you enter under Who to call.
- How they slept and when they last had a bowel movement, on the days you answer.
- Each episode: when it started, how long it lasted, what you tried, and what settled it.
- The days you marked as appointments, with what they were taking and what you had learned by each of them.
- Occasions you marked as having frightened you.
- Once a week, how you said you were holding up.
- A song and a photo, if you add them. These stay on this device and are left out of the backup, the report and any sharing.
- For the page shown if they ever go missing: how to recognise them and where they might try to go, and a clear photo of their face if you add one. The photo stays on this device like the others; the description travels with the rest of the record.
- Each time you checked for the common causes of a change, and what you found. It goes on the report so their doctor can see it was looked for.
- Anything you write in your own words, including the note for whoever stands in for you.
- Your own name, if you give one, so the other carers can see who logged what.
Where it goes
By default, nowhere: it is stored by this browser, on this device, and with sharing off the page asks the internet for nothing at all, not even a typeface. There is no analytics, no advertising, and nothing is ever sold or passed to anyone else. Turning on household sharing in Set up is the one thing the app itself sends anywhere, and what that means depends on where this copy of it is running:
What else leaves this device is what you take off it: the report you print or save as a PDF, and anything you copy to paste somewhere. Those are outside the app and it cannot reach them again, so where they end up is yours to decide.
Getting rid of it
Set up → Start fresh erases the record on this device at once, and clearing this site’s data in your browser does the same. The app keeps nothing elsewhere to ask about.
Anything you already printed, saved as a PDF or pasted somewhere is outside the app, and erasing here cannot reach it. Because there is only one copy inside the app, it is also the only copy — use Back up in Set up if losing it would matter.
If household sharing has been on, the shared copy is not yours alone to erase: the other carers hold it too, and this app will not delete their record for them. Start fresh turns sharing off and clears this device, and says so before it does.
What it is not
Not a medical device. It does not diagnose or treat anything, and it is not a substitute for their doctor. The suggestions are ordinary non-medical care advice, and the report is a record of what you chose to write down — a floor, not a complete account.
Set up
Filled in with example answers so you can try the button straight away. Replace them with the real ones.
Support, respite and learning
These links open outside Steady Days and need internet. Your record is not included. Ask the service about local respite and support groups.
Who they are, what helps, what makes it worse, and what they take.
For a relative or a respite carer: what settles them, what to avoid, and who to call, on one page you can print or send.
Household sharing
Share with the household
Creating or joining a household sends the shared record to this site’s server. Weekly answers, songs and photos stay on your device. Joining replaces the current record: save a backup first.
Where you are
Colours
Text size
Dim it after 10pm
Backup and move to another phone
The backup contains private health information. Keep it somewhere you trust. Songs and photos are not included. Opening a file previews it; Restore replaces this device’s record.
About them
These are example answers, so the button works before you have filled anything in. Replace them with the real ones.